relating in relationship????

This may be a multi part blog..  been playing with this one in my head and my heart for awhile..  mainly because i have learned from relating to myself, others, and myself again in all relationships..  romantic..  friendship.. business.. etc..  what do we "expect" from others...????  should we expect from others?? if we truly learned  to live in the present not project from the past and expect in the future would we be open to see what is truly here in every moment..  LOVe???  Love is a dangerous word..  it means different things to different people, so let me clarify what LOVe means to me..  LOVe = to be compassionate to oneself and to others..  to accept others for who they are, what they enjoy, and feels right to them no matter how directly opposite it may be from my views in the moment.  LOVe is everything and NOthing..  This idea of LOVe is not the idea most of us are raised with here are some examples of the old "love" = compromise, give to get, keeping pro and con points, who does more of, who does less of, why cant you be this way, why cant you be that way..

 LOVe.......   if you can imagine, is the warmest safest place you have ever been, it opens it arms to you no matter what..  i literally mean NO MATTER WHAT..  no matter how "bad" or how "good" you believe yourself or others to be LOVe will always be there with open arms..  in relationship i have seen myself learn to LOVe, and i have watched my self "love"...  the more i LOVe the less i love..  the more i am present, the less i project from the past into the present, the more i am present the less i project into the future and create worry about what will and what wont happen, and finally the more i am actually here in the present moment not created by the past or the future which means i am never really here, i finally get to be here to experience LOVe!

What the hell is the Charka system anyway?

That is a pretty good question and I’m glad you asked.  Again, as always I can only share my experience and what feels true to me.  This does not mean it is right or wrong, it is purely my experience.  As I journey into the depths of who I think I am, I have found that “truth” is merely our perception of any given subject.  You can quote all the research in the world, from the top people in any given field but if my experience is different than the research than I will always trust in my innate wisdom over research, and other’s ideas.  One of my favorite words is “Pono” = Effectiveness is the measurement of TRUTH.  With that being said, I will share what the Chakra system is to me.

I believe through my experience that we are much more than the physical body we see in the mirror.  We have many bodies on much more subtle levels, these being the emotional body, the mental body, and the spiritual body.  I believe the P.E.M.S bodies are only the beginning but these are the only realities I can recall experiencing.

The Charka system literally interprets our emotional, mental, and spiritual realities.  Our consciousness is not within us, it is outside of us, and whatever we have experienced in life gets filtered by the charka system and then is projected into our physical reality.  The body is only a bio-feedback mechanism to bring our awareness to what is actually going on in our consciousness.   Think of any auto-immune disease, could this disease just be the body bringing our awareness to parts of our ego that is full of self hatred?  In turn the body turns against itself to bring our awareness to this self hatred in hopes that we will hear its message and heal the roots within our consciousness to bring about true health and wellness?  Hmmmmmm…  I say it is a possibility, I also say I could be quite delusional, either way I find it interesting. 

Here is another way to understand the Chakra system.  Think of the Chakra system as a satellite TV dish on your house which receives your emotional, mental, and spiritual states.  The dish (chakras) interprets this subtle energy and projects this energy into a descrambler (your glandular and plexus systems), these systems then funnel this energy into your TV (what you see and experience), what you see and experience is recorded by your DVD player (organ system), this goes on most of our lives until we each realize that we hold the channel changer in our hand, and can choose to watch any channel available.  With this knowledge we can change our reality and heal ourselves through our perceptions.

My only question to myself is, do I want to continue to watch the same channel the rest of my life unconsciously or do I want to consciously create my reality?  The choice is truly yours.

i step without stepping.  i walk without walking.  i see without eyes.  i walk the pathless path without leaving a foot print.  i close my eyes and trust.  i open my heart and trust.  i come from heart first.  i am unlearning all that has been learned.  i am becoming free and simple.  i am open and closed.  i am becoming free as death although i am alive.

Listen to your being. It is continuously giving you hints; it is a still, small voice. It does not shout at you, that is true. And if you are a little silent you will start feeling your way. Be the person you are. Never try to be another, and you will become mature. Maturity is accepting the responsibility of being oneself, whatsoever the cost. Risking all to be oneself, that's what maturity is all about. - Osho